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For your own next step

Rehearse your next step.

Imagine a beginning or describe it in words. Rehearse what you can do, while leaving another person’s response unknown.

Walk through the beginning

  1. What is my action?

    Choose a question, a boundary, a short pause or opening a task.

  2. How do I begin?

    Imagine or write the first moment in your own words. A clear mental picture is not required.

  3. What if I get stuck?

    Add a realistic obstacle and a smaller alternative you want to try.

Example: saying you need time

First attempt

I want to think before I answer.

Rehearse your own response to a request, without imagining the other person must agree.

A smaller beginning

I need a moment.

If you get confused, you can check a prepared note or say only the first sentence.

Rehearsal remains rehearsal

An imagined action is not a completed conversation. If rehearsal increases uncomfortable scenarios, you can finish or choose a pause.

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